Seven Basic Life Principles (* - additional info below)

Every problem in life can be traced to seven non-optional principles found in the Bible. Every person, regardless of culture, background, religion, education, or social status, must either follow these principles or experience the consequences of violating them.

By learning principles rather than rules, individuals are equipped to make wise choices and avoid failure.

What Are Basic Life Principles?

1. Design ... Understanding the specific purposes for which God created each person, object, and relationship in my life and living in harmony with them. Thanking God for my design brings Self-Acceptance. *

2. Authority ... Honoring the responsibilities of parents, church leaders, government, and other authorities and learning how God works through them to provide direction and protection. Honoring my authorities brings Inward Peace. *

3. Responsibility ... Realizing I am accountable to God for every thought, word, action, and motive. Asking forgiveness of those I offend brings a Clear Conscience. *

4. Suffering ... Allowing the hurts from offenders to reveal “blind spots” in my own life, and then seeing how I can benefit their lives. Fully forgiving offenders brings Genuine Joy. *

5. Ownership ... Understanding that everything I have has been entrusted to me by God, and wisely using it for His purposes. Yielding my rights to God brings True Security. * 

6. Freedom ... Enjoying the desire and power to do what is right, rather than claiming the privilege to do what I want. Regaining ground surrendered to sin brings Moral Purity. *

7. Success ... Discovering God’s purpose for my life by engrafting Scripture in my heart and mind, and using it to “think God’s thoughts” and make wise decisions. Meditating on Scripture brings Life Purpose. *

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*Further Explanation Of Basic Life Principles ...

Colossians 2:2-4 (The Message) … I want you woven into a tapestry of love, in touch with everything there is to know of God. Then you will have minds confident and at rest, focused on Christ, God's great mystery. All the richest treasures of wisdom and knowledge are embedded in that mystery and nowhere else. And we've been shown the mystery! I'm telling you this because I don't want anyone leading you off on some wild-goose chase, after other so-called mysteries, or "the Secret."

Just as there are laws of nature that govern the universe, so there are principles of life that govern our relationships. The laws of nature force us to respect rules for living. For example, the law of gravity means that we cannot jump off a ten-story building without experiencing serious consequences.

There are similar conflicts in relationships when principles of life are violated. People, especially teenagers, don’t like to hear about rules. However, when they understand the underlying principles of life, they will often make rules or guidelines for themselves to ensure that they do not experience the consequences of violating the principles. Such personal disciplines are understandable for the athlete who wants to be an Olympic champion or the musician who wants to be a concert pianist. Why should this mind-set not also be true for the person who wants to excel in other areas of life?

Unfortunately, those who live by personal disciplines in order to achieve success, but do not explain to onlookers their underlying principles and goals, will often receive unexpected reaction and even rejection. Therefore, it is important for us to identify and explain the universal and non-optional Biblical principles of life that are the basis for many personal disciplines.

Life Principles

1. The principle of design

Each of us is born with certain unchangeables that are beyond our control. For example, we did not choose our birth parents, our brothers and sisters, our birth order, our gender, our nationality, or our innate physical features. Since we cannot change these things, we have a choice. Either we choose to be grateful for God’s purposes for these unchangeable features, or we will resent them and likely become bitter toward God and toward life in general. The basic principle is that true happiness does not come from our outward appearance or physical circumstances, but from the development of inward character, such as gratefulness, patience, compassion, and joyfulness.

2. The principle of authority

Everyone is under certain God-ordained authorities, such as parents, government, and the church. The purpose of God-ordained authority is to provide protection, direction, instruction, and provision. Authorities have a duty to do what is right, and should never ask someone to do evil. When this does happen, the one under authority should make a wise appeal, with right motives, as Daniel did when he was asked to eat the king’s food, but never do wrong (Daniel 1:8–16).

When an authority, such as parents, for example, fail to demonstrate love and approval and be the example that God requires of them, and instead become angry, unreasonable, and condemning, it is easy for their children to reject all authority. Then, they often look to friends or individuals outside their family for their acceptance and approval. All too often, this outside influence leads them to decisions that create a new set of physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual problems. God understands the tendency for one in authority to fail. Therefore, He gives grace to those under authority to respond properly and grow in the character of Christ. However, if appeals are rejected, a person should always refuse to do evil, no matter who asks them to do it.

3. The principle of responsibility

When we do something that is wrong, we cannot blame other people or circumstances for it. Doing this only creates bitterness, which is strengthened by the guilt of our own conscience. Instead, we must accept full responsibility for our own words, thoughts, attitudes, and actions. When we have damaged others, we must humble ourselves and go to those people, confess how we were wrong, and ask them for their forgiveness. Personal guilt is one of the most damaging factors there is to our mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health. Therefore, Scripture instructs us to gain and maintain a good conscience toward God and others.

4. The principle of suffering

It is not possible to go through life without being hurt by other people. Some of the greatest hurts come from those who are closest to us. The psalmist stated, “Mine own familiar friend, in whom I trusted, which did eat of my bread, hath lifted up his heel against me” (Psalm 41:9). It is hard to forgive these people, especially when they continue to offend. Yet, Jesus not only commands us to forgive our offenders, but to rejoice and be exceeding glad when others speak evil against us falsely. By understanding how this principle works, we will experience not only freedom from bitterness, but will also experience the power of love, joy, and peace.

5. The principle of ownership

The dream of many young people is to be rich and own expensive cars and other luxuries. Yet, those who have worked for riches will affirm the warning of Scripture that those who desire to be rich “fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts… and pierced themselves through with many sorrows” (I Timothy 6:9–10). On the other hand, God knows that we have need of basic things, such as food and clothing, and He has promised that if we seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, all these other things that we need will be added to our lives (Matthew 6:33). The principle of ownership shows us how to go from the bondage of being a prisoner of our possessions to the freedom of being a steward of God’s resources.

6. The principle of freedom

A young person who loses his or her virtue is robbed of a power that God uses to produce spiritual initiative, creativity, wisdom, and understanding. For this reason, there are warnings throughout Scripture for young people to flee youthful lusts and to keep themselves pure for the Lord and for the one they marry. No principle could be needed more urgently in our day, when lust and perversion are taking multitudes of young people captive in sexual addictions that destroy the very foundations of life, health, riches, and happiness. Moral freedom is not the right to do what we want, but the power to do what we ought, and that is the goal and message of this principle.

7. The principle of success

True success is achieving the purposes for which God created us. Only then will we find true happiness and fulfillment. God guarantees success to anyone who will meditate on His Word day and night. He said to Joshua, “This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success”(Joshua 1:8). Life’s three big questions are: (1) Where did I come from? (2) Why am I here? and (3) Where am I going? The primary life calling for every person is to glorify God through a personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ and to teach others His commandments.

Character Qualities

It did not take long to discover that principles alone were not sufficient. For example, a father may adopt the principle of authority and announce that he is the leader of his family. However, if he does not have qualities such as patience, compassion, gratefulness, wisdom, and kindness, his family will react negatively to his leadership and the principle of authority he claims to be following.

The commands of Jesus represent truth, and every character quality is a practical expression of genuine love. The Scripture combines these two ideas in the instruction to “speak the truth in love.” Proverbs says that only by mercy and truth is iniquity purged, and by the fear of the Lord, men depart from evil. The goal of spiritual maturity is to be in the likeness of Christ. Scripture refers to Christ as the “express image” of God. The Greek word for express image is charakter, from which we get the English word character. Therefore, the more we learn about character, the more we learn about Christ.

Forty-nine character qualities have been identified, along with their antonyms. These are explained from Scripture in the book titled The Power for True Success .

Commands of Christ (**see below for listing)

Even as I was working on the principles of life and the character qualities, I knew there was something more. The final command that Jesus gave to His disciples was to go and make disciples of all nations. But how do you know when you have made a disciple?

The answer is right in the text: “Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you” (Matthew 28:20). God provides a marvelous promise to those who will learn His commandments and do them. “He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him” (John 14:21).

It has been told, that in the days of Jesus, the sailors had an expression, to “keep the stars.” By this, they meant that they would keep the stars before their eyes and work out navigational guidance from them. This is the same meaning that Jesus has for the phrase “keep my commandments.” Jesus’ commands are like bright luminaries that give direction for our lives, and we should keep them in our minds.

All the commands of Christ are listed in the Gospels. Some commands were given to specific people, which would not apply to all believers. For example, Christ told Peter to walk on the water and told the rich young ruler to sell all his possessions. Also, some commands have a positive and negative side, such as lay not up for yourselves treasures on earth, but layup treasures in heaven. This would count as one command.

By putting all the general commands together, they come out to about 49. What is interesting about this list is that for every command, there is a specific character quality that can be directly related to it. For example, the first command is “Repent,” and this relates to humility. The second command is “Follow Jesus.” Those that do this will learn meekness, because He said, “Learn of me, for I am meek and lowly of heart” (Matthew 11:29). The third command is “[Rejoice] … when men shall … say all manner of evil against you…” (Matthew 5:11–12). This obviously relates to joyfulness.

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**Character Qualities

The Greek word for character is charakter. It is translated in Scripture as the “express image.” According to The Complete Word Study Dictionary New Testament, the word “originally denoted an engraver or engraving tool. Later it meant the impression itself, ususally something engraven, cut in, or stamped, a character, letter, mark, [or] sign. This impression with its particular features was considered as the exact representation of the object whose image it bore.” In Hebrews 1:3, Christ is referred to as the “express image” of God; He fully expressed the character of God through His life.

One of God’s primary goals for believers is to transform them into the image of His Son so that they may be a reflection of the character of Christ. We can take comfort in this purpose when we experience difficulties because “We know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose” (Romans 8:28).

Operational Definitions of 49 Character Qualities

Alertness vs. Unawareness

Being aware of that which is taking place around me so I can have the right response to it (Mark 14:38)

Attentiveness vs. Unconcern

Showing the worth of a person by giving undivided attention to his words and emotions (Hebrews 2:1)

Availability vs. Self-centeredness

Making my own schedule and priorities secondary to the wishes of those I am serving (Philippians 2:20–21)

Boldness vs. Fearfulness

Confidence that what I have to say or do is true and right and just in the sight of God (Acts 4:29)

Cautiousness vs. Rashness

Knowing how important right timing is in accomplishing right actions (Proverbs 19:2)

Compassion vs. Indifference

Investing whatever is necessary to heal the hurts of others (I John 3:17)

Contentment vs. Covetousness

Realizing that God has provided everything I need for my present happiness (I Timothy 6:8)

Creativity vs. Underachievement

Approaching a need, a task, an idea from a new perspective (Romans 12:2)

Decisiveness vs. Double-mindedness

The ability to finalize difficult decisions based on the will and ways of God (James 1:5)

Deference vs. Rudeness

Limiting my freedom in order not offend the tastes of those whom God has called me to serve (Romans 14:21)

Dependability vs. Inconsistency

Fulfilling what I consented to do even if it means unexpected sacrifice (Psalm 15:4)

Determination vs. Faintheartedness

Purposing to accomplish God’s goals in God’s time regardless of the opposition (II Timothy 4:7–8)

Diligence vs. Slothfulness

Visualizing each task as a special assignment from the Lord and using all my energies to accomplish it (Colossians 3:23)

Discernment vs. Judgment

The God-given ability to understand why things happen (I Samuel 16:7)

Discretion vs. Simplemindedness

The ability to avoid words, actions, and attitudes which could result in undesirable consequences (Proverbs 22:3)

Endurance vs. Giving up

The inward strength to withstand stress to accomplish God’s best (Galatians 6:9)

Enthusiasm vs. Apathy

Expressing with my soul the joy of my spirit (I Thessalonians 5:16,19)

Faith vs. Presumption

Visualizing what God intends to do in a given situation and acting in harmony with it (Hebrews 11:1)

Flexibility vs. Resistance

Not setting my affections on ideas or plans which could be changed by God or others (Colossians 3:2)

Forgiveness vs. Rejection

Clearing the record of those who have wronged me and allowing God to love them through me (Ephesians 4:32)

Generosity vs. Stinginess

Realizing that all I have belongs to God and using it for His purposes (II Corinthians 9:6)

Gentleness vs. Harshness

Showing personal care and concern in meeting the need of others (I Thessalonians 2:7)

Gratefulness vs. Unthankfulness

Making known to God and others in what ways they have benefited my life (I Corinthians 4:7)

Hospitality vs. Loneliness

Cheerfully sharing food, shelter, and spiritual refreshment with those whom God brings into my life (Hebrews 13:2)

Humility vs. Pride

Recognizing that it is actually God and others who are responsible for the achievements in my life (James 4:6)

Initiative vs. Unresponsiveness

Recognizing and doing what needs to be done before I am asked to do it (Romans 12:21)

Joyfulness vs. Self-pity

The spontaneous enthusiasm of my spirit when my soul is in fellowship with the Lord (Psalm 16:11)

Justice vs. Fairness

Personal responsibility to God’s unchanging laws (Micah 6:8)

Love vs. Selfishness

Giving to others’ basic needs without having as my motive personal reward (I Corinthians 13:3)

Loyalty vs. Unfaithfulness

Using difficult times to demonstrate my commitment to God and to those whom He has called me to serve (John 15:13)

Meekness vs. Anger

Yielding my personal rights and expectations to God (Psalm 62:5)

Obedience vs. Willfulness

Freedom to be creative under the protection of divinely appointed authority (II Corinthians 10:5)

Orderliness vs. Disorganization

Preparing myself and my surroundings so I will achieve the greatest efficiency (I Corinthians 14:40)

Patience vs. Restlessness

Accepting a difficult situation from God without giving Him a deadline to remove it (Romans 5:3–4)

Persuasiveness vs. Contentiousness

Guiding vital truths around another’s mental roadblocks (II Timothy 2:24)

Punctuality vs. Tardiness

Showing high esteem for other people and their time (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

Resourcefulness vs. Wastefulness

Wise use of that which others would normally overlook or discard (Luke 16:10)

Responsibility vs. Unreliability

Knowing and doing what both God and others are expecting from me (Romans 14:12)

Reverence vs. Disrespect

Awareness of how God is working through the people and events in my life to produce the character of Christ in me (Proverbs 23:17–18)

Security vs. Anxiety

Structuring my life around that which is eternal and cannot be destroyed or taken away (John 6:27)

Self-Control vs. Self-indulgence

Instant obedience to the initial promptings of God’s Spirit (Galatians 5:24–25)

Sensitivity vs. Callousness

Exercising my senses so I can perceive the true spirit and emotions of those around me (Romans 12:15)

Sincerity vs. Hypocrisy

Eagerness to do what is right with transparent motives (I Peter 1:22)

Thoroughness vs. Incompleteness

Knowing what factors will diminish the effectiveness of my work or words if neglected (Proverbs 18:15)

Thriftiness vs. Extravagance

Not letting myself or others spend that which is not necessary (Luke 16:11)

Tolerance vs. Prejudice

Acceptance of others as unique expressions of specific character qualities in varying degrees of maturity (Philippians 2:2)

Truthfulness vs. Deception

Earning future trust by accurately reporting past facts (Ephesians 4:25)

Virtue vs. Impurity

The moral excellence and purity of spirit that radiate from my life as I obey God’s Word (II Peter 1:3)

Wisdom vs. Natural Inclinations

Seeing and responding to life’s situations from God’s frame of reference (Proverbs 9:10)